Depression
and anxiety are growing problems in the West. The model of depression as a chemical imbalance in the brain is breaking down, and antidepressants
are ineffective. (I’m not suggesting you should stop taking antidepressants.
Even if they are not working out for you, discuss it with your physician first.) Where do we turn to find
relief?
Johann Hari considers this problem in his book Lost Connections. Hari was a long-time
sufferer of depression and taker of ever-increasing doses of antidepressants.
He was happy with the model that depression was a chemical imbalance that was
beyond his control and a pill could fix it. The problem was that a pill didn’t
fix it; he was still depressed.
First, it isn’t all in
your head—or even in your chemistry. Though there is a physiological, and even hereditary, aspect to depression that can make
some more susceptible, depression is triggered by our experience and social environments. Depression is a symptom of problems
in your life. To Hari, depression is essentially a social disease and it
requires social treatments.
Though Hari does not
claim to have completely uncovered the causes of depression, he outlines
several that are supported by research. He describes them all as types of
disconnection.
For example, many are
disconnected from meaningful work. They have no sense of control over their work. There is
no connection between effort and reward, and the work can be humiliating
drudgery. In addition, work has become much less secure; many have no idea if
they’ll have work next week or even tomorrow.
Related to this is
disconnection from status. Research of primates suggests that
depression is an expression of low status intended to protect apes from the
abuse of their neighbors. In highly stratified cultures, like the United States, stress is higher than in cultures with more
status equality. Low status people are under constant stress, and high status
people experience extreme stress when their status is challenged.
Most of all, we are
disconnected from other people. We are less likely than ever to belong to a church, club, civic group, professional organization, sports league or similar structure of
getting together with other face-to-face, bonding over common interests and
building relationships. Neighborhoods are no longer communities; they’re just clusters of homes.
Though it is more
challenging than taking a pill, the solution to depression is to reconnect in
those areas where we have become disconnected. It is especially important to
reconnect to other people. If you want to feel better, do something to make
someone else’s life better.
The difficulty is that
it is hard to get better on your own. Fortunately, if you’re willing to take a
step, there are things you can do. On the bigger scale, we need cultural reform
that supports personal relationships, meaningful values, meaningful work, empathy, hope and time in natural settings. There is no money to be made in
prescribing a community garden, a book club or a job where one is treated with respect, so the money will probably continue
to pour into drugs (whether they work or not), until we
demand—and start to create for ourselves—something better.
If you’re interested in
this book, you may also be interested in
The Beethoven Factor by Paul
Pearsall
Change Your Brain Change Your Body by Daniel
G. Amen
The Last Self-Help Book You'll Ever Need by Paul
Pearsall
The Relaxation Response by Herbert
Benson with Miriam Z. Klipper
Switch on Your Brain by Caroline
Leaf
Suggestible You by Erik Vance
Timeless Healing by Herbert Benson with Marg
Stark
Vital Friends by Tom Rath
Hari, Johan. Lost Connections: Uncovering the Real Causes
of Depression—and the Unexpected Solutions. New York: Bloomsbury, 2018.
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