-Who am I?
-What are my worthy accomplishments?
-Who do others think I am?
-Am I enjoying life now?
If you have satisfying answers to these questions, you probably have
good mojo. If you lack satisfying answers, or you have no answers, you probably
lack mojo and it shows in your performance, your relationships
and the way you feel about yourself.
As you can see from these concepts, Goldsmith’s idea of mojo is a
result of our thoughts, actions, and relationships. It is not a thing in
itself, but it arises from living in a way that we find to be happy and
meaningful.
Mojo is not constant. It can be lost and found. It can be too easily
lost through bad habits,
selfishness, bad relationships, and refusal to adapt.
Goldsmith devotes a chapter to how one can lose mojo, but much of the
book is about keeping or regaining it. For each element (identity, achievement,
reputation and acceptance), Goldsmith describes three or four strategies to
build mojo. Some of these resonated with me more than others, as I suspect
would be true of most readers. With 15 strategies, readers are likely to find
at least two or three they can use. Sometimes one good idea put into practice
is enough to make a great improvement.
You can have great mojo in one part of life, and less in another.
Goldsmith distinguishes between professional and personal mojo. Ideally, you
spend as much of your time as you can on things that are high in both types of
mojo.
Sometimes you may have high professional mojo and low personal, or
vice-versa. Goldsmith presents the option of changing “it” (your job or
situation) or changing “you.” He doesn’t argue for one over the other. He
includes examples of people who improved there mojo from both camps, those who
changed their work and those who changed themselves. If you understand yourself
well (identity), you should be able to make a good decision about what to change.
Reading the chapter on this subject, with its examples, may give you an idea of
how to approach it. It’s not an either/or choice. If you have low in either
professional or personal mojo, you can make changes that lead to high mojo in
both areas.
Goldsmith, Marshall, with Mark Reiter.
Mojo: How to Get It, How to Keep It, How
to Get It Back If You Lose It. New York: MJF Books, 2009.
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